Essay "Is marriage a lifelong burden or endless happiness?"

Marriage - is a very important period of live of every person in our big world. Can you imagine this life, when you wake up and see your loving person next to you. And smile. You look at him and understand, that He is exactly that person with whom you want spend your life. But sometimes it can be only dreams. You imagine this life in your dreams, and when you wake up you see that it's not true.
If you want to know answers on that question "Is marriage a lifelong burden or endless happiness?" firstly you need husband. Only when you will have your own family you'll understand "is marriage happy or it's not so". Because untill we live with our parents we see only one side of the problem of marriage. We observe only what our parents want us to see. So for answer for this question we must create our own family.
Every girl want that her guye will help her with housework. But not all guyes want play such role in family life. But some guyes want to help their sweetheart with difficult  work, sometimes in cooking, sometimes in cleaning. They do such, because they understand the whole role of women in co-operative life.
So, answer on that question can be dual. If we look from one side we can say that marriage is a lifelong burden, everydays hard work without return. But when we look from the other side we can see that marriage is happy, that can be with you for whole life. Each person is creator of his or her own happy.